I Am Stuck In A Love Triangle And Not Sure About The Right Girl To Marry

Posted by E.L.E.X on June 09 2020 under Motivational

I must admit I’m not one to run to the internet seeking advice on relationship matters as I’m obviously an unrepentant introvert with the mindset of always capable of single-handedly finding solutions to any seeming challenge when I shut everyone out and channel all energy in our usual self-isolation mode, but I’m afraid this very issue would seem a daunting task just too high for one person to maneuver around

I will try and succinctly go straight to the point symmetrically in other not to bore you all to death about my apparent inability to make a right marital choice

I am in a state of absolute quagmire in a period where I should have logical clarity in making a choice concerning a life partner, this is so because I’m in a relationship with two ladies who admittedly on their parts go out of their way to shower love, affection, care and unbelievable level of understanding toward my person.

I mean the choice could have been far easier if one of them was found wanting in delivering desirable wife duties but NO they’re equally as lovable just as they’re deserving of becoming ladies who should be doted upon by an absolute faithful man

Just like every other lady they both have their distinct strengths and weaknesses but the catch in all of this is that they complement each other’s weaknesses astutely, Wish they could both be moulded into just one person.

I met the first one about 2 years back having just returned from NYSC duty, she is 22 and comes from a vulnerable background economically and as such just have the solitary WAEC certificate to show for all her efforts but my goodness!

She is caring and kind, she cooks so good, does my laundry, calls 24/7,always the first to say sorry even when not wrong.. etc, simply put she is undoubtedly a good girl but I fear for the mismatch socially and educationally with me, I have a Master’s degree in view and don’t even know if my parents will entertain such union as I’m clearly levels above her in qualification even though she is currently acquiring tailoring skills

The other I met quite recently, earlier this year to be precise, she is 30, done with tertiary education and working, I first chatted her up as normal acquaintance in January and further escalated proceedings to relationship status when I had a major fall out with my first girl(largely due to my fault) I must add, she calls just as much and hinges little financial responsibility on me, she has even gone as far to informing her parents about me and wants so much commitment from me when I’m not so sure what to even do right now even though I plan to settle when I complete my Master’s program

Now I need two form of solutions on what next to do, both short and long term, my birthday comes up next month and both literally intends to spend all day with me for obvious reasons.

I’m absolutely flummoxed as to what decision to make, none of them deserve to be hurt by me, they haven’t remotely done anything to warrant such treatment from me, but what exactly can I do?

I Am Stuck In A Love Triangle And Not Sure About The Right Girl To Marry

Please help.

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