Posted by E.L.E.X on January 27 2020 under Motivational
Hi Guys,
Trust we all had a good weekend.
It’s another brand new week, A week of success, commitment, and motivation!
It’s barely 29 days since we all shouted HAPPY NEW YEAR with a lot of people publicizing their new year resolutions well the tough ones are still holding on to it.
So yesterday, I had a gist with a friend of mine and he was telling me how most of his childhood friends who have made it more than him are disrespecting him.
During the chat, I realize the problem wasn’t really the friends but the guy himself. He felt he deserves more than what life offers him.
He talked about how much he helped his childhood friends back when he had the power and also how he thinks they should be helping him by now.
Then I realized his problem was basically that he has “Too Much Sense Of Entitlement.” How can you demand respect when you don’t respect yourself?
However, I listed some few points to him and decided to share with you guys, who knows who might be motivated with it.
So Guys, below are some few points to help you gain some few respects if you really want some.
Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
Stop looking for who is not looking for you
Stop begging unless you know deep down your heart that begging is your last option
Stop saying more than is necessary.
When people disrespect you, confront them immediately. Do not hold grudges, NEVER
Don’t eat other people’s food more than they eat yours.
Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don’t reciprocate it.
Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
Respect your time.
Don’t stay in a relationship where you don’t feel respected and valued. Walk away to avoid evil thoughts
Learn to spend money on yourself. That’s how people will learn to spend on you.
Be scarce sometimes.
Be a giver more than a receiver. With that, you can learn to work harder to earn more and also reduce your sense of entitlement
Don’t go where you are not invited. And when invited don’t overstay your welcome, secondly, you don’t always have to go everywhere you’re been invited
Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
Be good at what you do…….
So Guys,
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